Looking to have healthier relationships that last and don’t leave you feeling used and misunderstood? Experts say the key to maintaining the healthiest relationships (including within your job, your friendships, your romantic relationships, and even your family) is being a ruthless, unapologetic boundary setter. Simply put, setting boundaries promotes respectful relationships. According to coach Angelik Sims, “Boundary setting is the most important way to teach people how you expect to be treated.” I get it- this is easier said than done. Many of us (ahem- me) have people-pleasing tendencies that make getting into the habit of setting and sticking to clear boundaries feel uncomfortable and awkward.

A great way to heal from traumatic experiences outside of the therapy room is to educate yourself and learn from leading researchers and clinicians who are dedicated to providing the best information about the psychological effects of trauma and the methods that have helped others heal. You are not alone! Check out these great reads to get started in your journey towards beating PTSD and complex trauma.