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Read MoreThey say boys are made of snips, snails, and puppy dog tails, but they're also made of much more!
Read MoreBut there is good news! You can learn skills and alternative ways to cope with feelings of emotional distress to keep from reaching for those unhealthy foods whenever you’re faced with a negative feeling.
Read MoreGirls just want to have fun! And they will have fun in our Girls Group as they learn more about themselves and others!
Read MoreCome join our Personal Trainer, Deborah McLaughlin, to train to run a 5K. Have fun, get in shape, manage stress, you can do it! We will motivate and guide you!
Read MoreWhen you are going through a tough time, lean on your partner. Allow your partner to lean on you. Support is the cornerstone of a healthy relationship.
Read MoreOf course you want to share things with your partner, but some independence in a relationship is healthy. Hobbies are good for us, they indulge our creativity and studies show that they offer numerous health benefits. You and your partner likely have some similar interests, but there are things you enjoy that he doesn’t. So do them for yourself!
Read MoreWhether you are 25 and living with your boyfriend and your dog, or 45 with a pre-teen and a toddler or 65 and (finally) an “empty-nester,” you need to date your significant other. Check out our date ideas for Memphians and other tips for keeping the romance alive.
Read MoreAs humans we are always looking for new stimulation and experiences. In romantic relationships, it is necessary to keep things exciting and spicy. Today we're talking about the bedroom. Learn how to turn your bedroom into a sanctuary, take a quiz to determine those sexual interests you and your partner have in common, and heed Marilyn's advice.
Read More“I’m starting with the man in the mirror. I’m asking him to change his ways.” Rabi Mica Greenstein encourages us all to love ourselves and love our neighbor. Help yourself so you can help a friend. Did you know that peace is the most-used work in the Old Testament?
Read MorePeople cheat. A lot. The number who people who have extramarital affairs is thought to be 25% of men and 15% of women. Among both men and women, personality and self-esteem are major factors...
Read MoreLoving a person who has an anxiety disorder can be very difficult at times. You might find yourself taking on extra responsibilities that you do not want, or avoiding certain places or activities that you used to enjoy because they trigger your partner’s anxiety. This can strain a relationship, but it can also bring the two of you closer together. This post uses tips derived from experts and authors in the realm of anxiety disorders.
Read MorePeople with high stress jobs—surgeons, lawyers, entrepreneurs, business owner—carry more stress and anxiety than do others. They are more likely to have anxiety disorders, be depressed, and feel guilt and shame when they fail. Shame is highly correlated with addiction, depression, violence, and eating disorders. Luckily, there are ways to combat this shame.
Read MoreLearn how to make appointments with yourself to improve your mental and emotional, physical, and spiritual health. Taking the time to care for yourself will improve your mood, broaden your mind, and even help you get a better night’s sleep.
Read MoreWhether out of guilt or an unrealistic sense that we can “do it all,” many of us say yes to everything even if we have no interest or time. But setting boundaries is a highly important skill to master for both personal and professional growth. We must learn to say "no."
Read MoreFor many people procrastination is caused by anxiety, but the unfortunate reality is that for many people procrastination also CAUSES anxiety.
Read MoreMindful eating brings the principles of mindfulness to the dinner table. When we are purposefully aware of our eating we chew slowly, deliberately noticing the sensations and our responses to those sensations. We eat quietly. This holiday season eat slowly. Enjoy the company around the table.
Read MoreA lack of connection with your partner, unresolved fights, poor communication of sexual needs and preferences, and infidelity can all lead to severely lowered libidos.
Read More“Melancholy were the sounds on a winter’s night.” – Virginia Woolf, Jacob’s Room
Seasonal affective disorder (SAD) is a type of depression that is related to the changes in seasons. The symptoms of SAD commonly begin in the fall and continue through the winter months. Symptoms include: low energy, irritability, heavy, “leaden” feeling in arms or legs, oversleeping, overeating, drop in libido.
It is normal to feel down from time to time, but it you feel depressed for multiple days at a time and can’t get motivated to do the activities you normally enjoy, see your doctor.
Although the exact cause of SAD is unknown, one important factor seems to be sunlight, or lack thereof. The decrease of sunlight in fall and winter might disrupt our biological clocks, leading to feelings of depression.
5 remedies for SAD:
1) Get outside and soak up the sun as much as you can. Even on cold and cloudy days outdoor light can help. Bundle up and take a long morning walk—this is most effective within the first two hours of waking.
2) Make your environment sunnier and brighter. Open the blinds during the day and sit near windows. Invest in a “dawn simulation” clock that slowly brightens like the rising sun.
3) Try a new centering activity—yoga, meditation, massage. Stretching, breathing, and the power of the human touch are often underrated, but have immense healing influence.
4) Get out of the darkness for a while by taking a trip to a warm, sunny locale.
5) Schedule social activities throughout the winter. When you feel depressed, social engagement can be daunting, but social support and friendship are some of the best ways to curb depression and loneliness.
Remember, the dark months of winter can seem foreboding, but it will be spring before you know it.
“In the depth of winter I finally learned that there was in me an invincible summer” –Albert Camus
Written by Catherine Clubb-Brown, Forward Counseling intern
Photo courtesy of sleepcare.com.
Additional resources:
http://seattletimes.com/html/health/2024905188_onhealthsadxml.html
Feeling lonely or hopeless? Do you have a health disorder? Consider a furry friend.
Pets calm us and raise our moods. It only takes a few minutes with a dog or cat to feel less anxious. Our levels of cortisol, a hormone associates with stress, lower as we stroke animals. The production of serotonin, a chemical associated with well-being, is increased.
Does high blood pressure or cholesterol run in your family? You still need to watch your weight and exercise, but it has been proven that pet owners have lower blood pressure and cholesterol than those who don’t have pets. Pet owners are also less likely to die of a heart attack.
People who own dogs tend to be more physically active and less obese than people who don’t. Taking your dog for a daily 30-minute walk will keep you moving and ensure that you meet the minimum recommendations for healthy physical activity. Your dog will be so excited for the walk that you’ll get excited too!
Cat owners are less likely to have strokes. Not only are cats more calming than dogs, but it is also possible that cat owners are more invested in their pets and therefore have less time to be anxious.
Pet owners tend to want to talk to other pet owners. A dog is a conversation waiting to happen. Head to the dog park and chat with the other dog owners—you never know, you might make a new friend or even form a love connection.
Researchers have found that children who grow up in homes with pets are less likely to develop allergies. Children with pets also have stronger immune systems. Kids who grow up in houses with cats are less likely to develop asthma as they get older.
Some dogs can alert their owners to dangerous drops in blood sugar before they happen. The alarm gives the owner time to eat a snack and avoid the emergency.
The responsibility and attention of caring for a pet is very good for children with ADHD, and the time spent playing with the animal is a great way for the children to release energy and sleep through the night.
Therapy dogs can be very good for individuals and couples in counseling. Come visit us at Forward Counseling and meet our own sweet dog, Lily! As Bernard Williams says, “There’s no psychiatrist in the world like a puppy licking your face.”
Written by Catherine Clubb-Brown, Forward Conseling Intern
Additional resources:
http://pets.webmd.com/dogs/ss/slideshow-behaviorial-problems-in-dogs
http://www.webmd.com/hypertension-high-blood-pressure/features/health-benefits-of-pets
http://www.helpguide.org/articles/emotional-health/the-health-benefits-of-pets.htm
http://www.upworthy.com/what-is-depression-let-this-animation-with-a-dog-shed-light-on-it
Depression is a serious condition, one that detriments all parts of life, both mentally and physically. But it can be difficult to understand what other people are going through when you can’t see any physical markings. This is a video that relates depression to an extremely intrusive and cruel black dog. The video discusses the lack of confidence and motivation the man feels, as well as the “superhuman strength” it takes him to wake up and get out of bed in the mornings.
The video also details the beneficial ways to get that black dog to go away. Aside from medication, the man finds that “being emotionally genuine to those around you can be an absolute game changer.” Earlier in the video he discusses the exhaustion that comes from putting his time and energy into hiding the black dog. Trying to portray a fake emotion isn’t helping anything.
This man learns to come to terms with his depression and discovers ways to help it settle down in his life. He mentions how making an effort to feel more relaxed and less stress gives depression less control over his emotions, as well as exercise, a mood journal, and practicing gratitude.
Perhaps most importantly, the man urges that “black dog days can and will pass.” At Forward Counseling, we’d like to help it along. Contact us to make an appointment if you feel like black dog days are weighing you down. By learning to quiet your mind, you can get a hold of your depression and stop letting it control you. See our therapy options to learn more!